Monday, September 14, 2009
85 Broads Goes the Extra Mile to Fight Breast Cancer
Wednesday, September 09, 2009
Coach Colette is Back in the Classroom
- Resolve interpersonal challenges diplomatically
- Communicate goals and expectations clearly
- Motivate others to share in your vision
Tuesday, September 08, 2009
85 Broads-Komen NYC Team is Half-Way There
That's right our 28 team members have secured 42 gifts to bring us even closer to our $3,500 target. I'm so proud of the efforts of these fantastic women in our FIRST year of building a team (in only 2 months, I might add). I can't wait to walk with everyone on Sunday!
I'm also grateful to the supporters who have brought me 37% of the way towards my $250 Challenge. And, my FREE Assessment offers still stand for donors who contribute to my Challenge before Race Day on September 13th. Read my earlier blog post for more details on how to claim your Thank YOU!
Together, we WILL Run Breast Cancer Out of Town!
Wednesday, September 02, 2009
Stress in the City: Is Cuddling the Answer?
Life factors considered in the study of 40 of America's largest metro areas were:
- Unemployment figures (Bureau of Labor Statistics - June 2009)
- Cost of living figures (Council for Community and Economic Research)
- Median home price declines (National Association of Realtors - 2008-2009)
- Population density (US Census)
- Number of sunny and/or partly sunny days (NES-DIS - 2007)
- Air quality figures (US EPA - 2007)
As a native New Yorker, I can appreciate our ranking in the Top 5 of metro areas. However, you know that I'm a big proponent of finding creative, proactive ways to manage your stress. A lot of this has to do with your self-perception and self-talk.
Most of the life factors on the list are not things we can actively control -- EXCEPT that we do have a choice about where we live. In today's tight job market, you may challenge me on that a bit. "I HAVE to live here because of my job." But, remember, once you start to view your situation in terms of what you "HAVE" to do, you've already given yourself an extra burden of stress. The choice still exists; hopefully you're able to choose your best option at the particular moment in time.
From the career/job search perspective, I've written before about the value of focusing on the things you can control - your physical and online career presence, and your marketing collateral.
From the personal wellness perspective, I've written about the importance of flipping the script to create a more positive viewpoint. That may mean changing how you think about your situation, letting go of the "SHOULDs", or allowing space for things to be less than perfect. [I know, the horror!]
Social supports are important, too. One interesting link in the article was to a video about a new trend of hosting Cuddle Parties. Apparently taking heed of the value of physical touch in reducing stress, these parties have been held in the New York and San Francisco areas.
Would you attend (have you attended) a Cuddle Party? Comment here or tweet me your response and to share other ways you deal with stress.